Walk with me. Talk with me. Let's visit the land of hypothetical, hmm?
Let's say you're you. Okay? So far so good?
And let's say you have a friend, who we'll call Friend. And let's say Friend has a significant other, who we'll call SO. Got it?
Now Friend is actually a pretty decent friend. Friend seeks you out, supports you, connects with you as you'd expect a friend would and Friend can be fun. So, you enjoy hanging out with Friend.
Over time, you see that whither Friend goest, goes SO. You make several attempts to get to know SO but SO isn't warming to you. At first, you write it off to poor social skills on SO's part. But, after a while you begin to think maybe SO just doesn't like you. SO isn't rude, per se, but makes no effort to talk with you. None. When you talk to SO, you get the bare minimum back. And, you're not sure, but maybe SO is giving off a vibe. A not so nice vibe.
So, hypothetically, of course... what do you do?
18 September 2009