Plumbing, Doubling, and Panning

And so we enter the new year with paper plates and cups as we are experiencing a problem with the kitchen sink, and by extension, the dishwasher. Happily, the plumber is due today. I have lived without a dishwasher. I owned a house for eleven years where I was the dishwasher and I do not want to repeat it.

All that said, we brought out the flutes for the champagne. Champagne from a paper cup just doesn't work.

Meanwhile, I notice that every commercial, offering some cheap gizmo that we supposedly can't live without, insists on doubling our order. You know, Billy Mays yelling "BUT WAIT! ORDER NOW AND WE'LL DOUBLE YOUR ORDER! THAT'S RIGHT, WE'LL SEND YOU TWO..." What's up with that, anyway?? Here's a thought: cut the mark up and sell one. Better yet, keep your cheap gizmo.

It's my own fault for watching so much television. I am in a Biggest Loser haze. Bravo ran a marathon of Season 2 episodes--you know the season with Suzy, the adorable but constantly crying and squeaking woman? She made sounds only porpoises could pick up. This went on all day yesterday leading up to the NBC two-hour premiere of Biggest Loser: Couples. So much crying. So much inspirational music. So much panning of reaction shots. So much recapping of the recapping. So much weight lost! The least amount lost in a week was 7 pounds. I can only imagine what these people go through. I'm curious as to why there isn't more diversity on this show. It's pretty dang white. Aside from that, it's pretty good. JoeBob says "Check it out!"

Lessons from Jillian

I saw a rerun on Bravo of an episode of Biggest Loser, a show that is Celebrity Fit Club without the celebrities. In it, Jillian, one of the team's coaches, is proud of her "tough" reputation. That's her in the "bully" shirt, there. In this episode, she gives each of the team members an assignment to do 500 push ups and 500 crunches and 500 lunges and their immediate reaction is "500?? That's insane. I can't do that."

She does this intentionally. She starts with what appears impossible and works with them and helps them to learn persistence and break down the goal until it's done. And it does get done. They do it. They are amazed that they find a way to do it but they do do it. She has pushed them to re-evaluate what is possible and doable.

That's what weight loss is all about. Changing "I can't do it." to "I will do it."

That's also what life is all about. We continue to face new challenges and our initial response to something new is almost always "I can't do it." or at least "I don't know if I can do it." And then, when there's no choice, when Jillian or someone or something equally as scary, is staring us down, we try. Most of the time we find that we can do it and, after the fact, we wonder what all that fear was about. Until the next challenge and it starts all over again.

What would it be like if, instead of looking at challenges with fear, we faced challenges as exciting opportunities to show that we can do this, even if "this" is entirely new and unknown? Not to operate with bravado but just to be open to our own potential. I guess the lesson from Jillian is that it's okay to be afraid, just don't let it stop you from believing you can do anything.